Counter-Psychology.

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There are two main points to this rant, to which it has now come to the point where I cannot stand it anymore. These ideals I have sat idly by as a spectator trying to understand why people act in such ways. It has come to a time in my life where I have moved on from my previous mistakes and have tried to start fresh, but in starting this new life I cannot help but express my anger at the way people are conducting themselves. It’s time to break the silence.

People are now changing faces like dirty underwear. It may undermine the fact that they are shit-talking just as much as they’re soiling their underwear (hence the analogy), but in all honesty, the way people can change face and say something they may or may not mean or act differently from how they were acting even so close as a few minutes ago with a valid reason somehow confuses the living shit out of me.

As of recent times I have watched countless amounts of people say one thing that makes perfect sense and show some love and respect (as being friends, that is what one would expect) but then come out about five minutes later and say some hateful shit and mean it. Some hateful shit which kills friendships that were built over years and it all turns to shit because one dumb piece of shit doesn’t get their way, I still cannot comprehend how much people do not care anymore. Then I look to society and I realise its happening everywhere. I would talk to my friends and they would tell me how their so-called “best friend” just lied to them behind their backs but actually told them some long and typically bullshit story about how something did or didn’t happen and twist the story to fit their own ends and keep the love for them so that they can reap the rewards. It’s an absolute fucking joke and everyone is letting it happen right under their noses.

I look at the whole situation of people changing faces and I put it down to these categories, Two-faced, Defaced or Faceless. To understand it better we look at each perspective in a different point of view.

Two-faced: Lying directly to someone and pretending to be their friend and then going behind their backs to someone else (usually someone you don’t like too well) and tells them all this shit about you or tells them your secrets. You will definitely meet people like this in your life because some people live only to screw over as many people as humanely possible. These types of people are unable to hold any form of friendship and are usually found to be social outcasts due to the fact that their IQ could not stand above the sewer rats littering the swamps. Even when the day comes that pigs actually do fly, these people will not grow brains.

Defaced: These types of people are the jealous fucks that go out of their way to deface your personality or your self-esteem, the types of people that have no hesitation in lying to put you down and have them above you because they know they are not as good as you. These people are usually rivals of some sort with no fucking balls to stand up and accomplish their own goals so they prey on other people’s aspirations and try to halt their progress. These types of people were abused as children by their own fucking misconceptions and should be shot.

Faceless: These types of people are beyond help. These are the compulsive liars, the types of people that you will never trust in your entire life due to sheer fact that you know they will fuck you over. These people have lied so much, they have killed friendships for no reason, relationships too. People may have even been badly injured due to these liars. They have no soul, no remorse, and no face. They will not stop until they have accomplished what they want and they do not care who they have destroyed in the process. Self-styled masters of pain, beware of these people, you will not keep your friends here.

Undoubtedly, you have met these kinds of people at some particular stage in your life. It’s always the same old story involving the different kinds of faces and the extent of the damage can differ at times. I advise you to understand and analyse those that are close to you before you give them your full trust. If you are one of those types of people that has betrayed the trust before, you better have reconciled your ways, because it is those who willingly betray others that will feel the full force of karma and will remember it well. So smarten your act up now before you fuck up your life and possibly someone else’s.

Now for the second part of this rant. In Australia, we are all entitled to free speech and our own opinion, or so we would believe. If we do have the right to free speech then why are opinions absolutely shut down if they do not match the majority’s view of the same subject? Defeats the purpose just a little bit don’t you think?

How can people come out with an opinion if it has to be passed and evaluated by society in order to be taken seriously? I once heard a quote saying, “The right to be heard does NOT include the right to be taken seriously,” and this is indicative of our society today. At schools, workplaces and even in households and on the streets, if you want to make a point about a subject you might as well run for government, because you’ll either be laughed at or corrupted in the future.

Even when the times comes that you can make an opinion and be heard, then comes the idea that people will actually listen and understand the point you make to the full extent. It’s no use making a point and then having it misinterpreted, and believe me it happens countless times in society. Even from my own personal experience, people have taken the words that I have said and misinterpreted them or even twisted them into their own understanding and have either disobeyed me or done something stupid and not meant it, depending on their intentions.

So the moral of this message is to remind you of the simple ideals when making a point. Such as, if you’re going to make a point, MAKE SENSE, if no one can fucking understand you then there is a huge problem with your opinion and/or statement. If your opinion targets particular people, then you’re possibly a bigot of some form that has no clue what they’re talking about. Unless you have some form of ironclad evidence to support any of your stupidity induced accusations or generalisations, I just you cut your tongue out and serve it on a platter to the bears at Taronga Zoo as an entrée then serve the rest of your dumb self as the main course.

Some Facts.

- If life is a pain, and you’re depressed, shutting people that care about you away is not the best option. If you’re actually going to go and blame people that have no idea about your pain for it, then you’re an idiot. People are not mind readers but they can tell something is wrong, those people are your true friends and you should NOT abuse the privilege.

- Change is inevitable. People will become closer to you and distant from you will change. Over time you may come to accept or reject this change. The funniest part is when people change, it’s usually drastic. Think of my words on “faces”, when the change occurs, the person may just warp and then become distanced from you, in which you will never see them again.

- Truth hurts, but it’s better to tell the truth than live a lie. If caught in such a situation where you believe lying will get you out of it, you’re dead set fucking wrong. If you build on a lie, and more lies add to it, then the bubble bursts and the shit hits the fan, where do you think the lies will get you? In deeper shit.

- If you have particular feelings for someone, best to tell them and not keep hiding it for a long time. If you hate them, tell them, and make sure you tell them why for fucks sake. If you have feelings for them, make it clear, simple and straight forward, we are not all mind-readers.

- Nobody has the right to judge another man (or woman). The good book says “Judge not unless ye be judged.” If you are one such judgemental person, let me be the first of about a billion people to tell you that you are a fucked in the head and to get off your fucking power trip. To those that take offence from being judged, do not let it hold you back; remember that what doesn’t you kill you, makes you stronger and you should push on. Fuck what anybody else says.

- Don’t use my words as an incentive to do harm to others. Just because I said “Fuck what anybody else says”, doesn’t give you the fucking right to go and do harm to others. If I find that anyone is trying to twist my words so that they target people or do harm to someone (especially my friends) I will hunt you down, stab you in the face with a rusted knife and watch the shards peel off and make you eat it.

- You can call me whatever the fuck you want, names, insults, profanities. But here’s something for you to remember. There’s always something YOU will never be, and that’s ME. Those that feel the need to generate pointless insults about other people are either jealous or just fucked in the head, or both. Being yourself just doesn’t seem to be happening anymore. People are conforming or adapting to lifestyles of sorts, they’re following particular trends or fads such as the Emos.

- Time is something that gets thrown around and taken for granted. As it seems, some of us do not actually take the time out to understand and appreciate the finer things in life, or those around us that have helped us to live a longer life on the right track. Those types of people that understand the value of life and the time we have to do what we feel passionate about will succeed and be fulfilled and be happy.

Until Next Time.

Evz. (VoSx)